Showing posts with label Mary Clare Abraham. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mary Clare Abraham. Show all posts

Monday, January 3, 2011

Animal Abuse



Lacy is a 7-pound mixed breed dog that was tethered to a tree outside of her Bakersfield home. She was brutally hit across her mouth with a golf club and had bleach sprayed into her eyes.  Furthermore she was left bruised for several days without any medical attention.
 Has the harsh cruelties of life turned us into an inhumane beast? Do we choose to channel all our anger to those defendless creatures below us? Is it all because we choose to be ignorant to what the ones above have planned for us? Is it fair, or audacious for us to exert our authority in such a manner?
This behaviour depicts an individual’s trait that mainly exhibits cowardliness. The inability to constructively manage their emotions resorts them to hurt the creatures that pose no harm as they roam the earth.
Domestic animals such dogs and other pets are like infants who come into this world of the unknown with the longing to be loved. Just like infants they do not choose who their “parents” would be. But regardless of whom they see before them they slowly remove the mask of fear and love their owners no matter how their physical appearance may be. The feeling of being wrapped in some ones arms no matter whom or what they use to be seizes to pose any difference to the amount of loyalty that the dog would have on the owner.
How then do we handle ruthless individuals who fail to notice that an animal pulsates and so the feeling of hurt be it physical or emotional is present in the animal. Would allowing the abuser to go through a similar process of torture be sufficient to teach the individual? Well, in my opinion I feel that the solution is deeply rooted within the soul and the background of the individual.
I honestly feel that the abuser is not of a sound mind. Only a professional psychotherapist maybe able to tap into the mind of the abuser enabling the root cause of their actions to be unravelled.  Gonzales who is the convicted from the article, has had prior charges which include possession of a controlled substance and an illegal weapon. An ex-girlfriend also has a restraining order against him on counts of domestic violence. With ill treatment of fellow people what more on harmless fragile animals. 

Bullying In School


http://www.boston.com/news/education/k_12/articles/2010/01/24/teens_suicide_prompts_a_look_at_bullying/
According to Wikipedia, “Bullying is a form of abuse. It involves repeated acts over time attempting to create or enforce one person's (or group's) power over another person (or group), thus an "imbalance of power".”  In this blog post I would be expressing my views of bulling a single individual. The exertion of force and power over an individual may be due to several reasons. These reasons include satisfaction or the release of frustration as they may have been or are being abused at home.
Why satisfaction you may be wondering. Well, some people find it gratifying to oppress other individuals with their power and commonly in school is their size or other advantages that they may have over others. The feeling of control from bullying gives them the gratification. When teenagers have anger that is cooped up for long and do not effectively deal with it they channel their anger into making the lives of others miserable. For some who are being bullied at home want others to know exactly what they feel so they do unto other what others have done unto them.
Bullying comes in two main forms Physical and Verbal. Physical bullying leads to visible scars only then the matter tends to be taken seriously. However the deeply engraved scars caused by verbal abuse may not be exuded during the initial stages however the long term effects may be very detrimental. Especially for those who choose to compress their sadness within themselves eventually emotions are bound to burst out and the result can be very messy.
The medium through which insulting and other demeaning words are conveyed has increased with the advancements in technology and the increased knowledge of cyber awareness. Taunts can be conveyed not just through personal contact but via the internet in the individual’s home. This makes running away from mockery a whole lot harder than ever before. With Reference to the article Bullying did not stop on school ground it was continued with taunting text messages and harassing postings on Facebook.  When bullied in school most teenagers would normally avoid school grounds but when the taunts begin to follow you wherever you go it becomes a living nightmare.
As stated in the article, the bullying received in school eventually lead to the girl committing suicide. Basically immense pain from slurs leads to intolerance which than leads to suicide. Of cause this in lay mans terms which is a more complex problem to resolve. Slurs can cause a wound in your heart but when it continues it is like cutting an open wound over and over again. Teenagers who do not have a support group or who are introverts that do not know how or do not want to utilise theses support is especially dangerous for them. Support may come in the form of friends, family and relatives. These individuals who do not have or do not use the support feel encased with their problems preventing them from looking beyond anything else. They begin to feel that their battling a war alone.
Remember the phrase, “sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me”? This to me is a little less trickier said than done. Only an individual whose heart is made of stones can withstand perpetual slurs. Amidst many insults at least one is ought to get you thinking if it could be true.
In my opinion slurs pierce right through an individual’s confidence which can result in them questioning themselves on their appearance, abilities, inabilities, character, and personality basically, everything about themselves. With all emotions within the individual instable the actions carried out would not be thought through in that state of mind. Death will be seen as the only option to liberate oneself from the pain.
Finally, they may want revenge because, as defined earlier that bullying is the imbalance of power. Bullies tend to be the more domineering one who exerts their power to oppress others. Not in a professional point of view but in my point of view I feel that an individual who is constantly bullied and ostracized would want to eventually speak up. This may not be for all cases but for some. The encased hurt may evolve into anger that is nurtured over the years. The effects may be that the individual would want to avenge once they have achieved a certain level of power and authority. In the extreme cases they may take it out on not just the bully but on all those who could have helped but failed to do so.
The morals I have learnt after carefully lamenting about this post is that everyone should be treated with respect regardless of the position or status they posses. The future remains uncertain and the build up within an individual is invisible to the naked eye. The possible detriments from bullying are just not worth it.
"Just One person’s dysfunctional behaviour can possibly cause a catastrophe".

Recent Natural Disasters

Indonesia tsunami deaths increase after Sumatra quake



Natural Disasters is part of a progression that human hands cannot control. The world is changing and Mother Nature has been tampered with. With all the adverse effects that the earth has to go through to sustain all living organisms, are not natural disasters inevitable? Preventive measures may be implemented however the capability of Mother Natures’ wrath remains indefinite to even the most renowned scientist.

In October 2010 off the coast of Sumatra, without any forewarning Indonesia experienced an earthquake that triggered a tsunami with a magnitude of 7.7. A total of ten villages were completely destroyed in landslides. The tsunami moved at such an intense speed that it tore down trees, destroyed roads and bridges, and wrecked buildings. The access roads in Sumatra were torn apart by the quake preventing medical teams from reaching the injured. Just imagine lying by the side of a broken down road waiting for help to arrive for a time that remains unknown with blood oozing out of your wounds exposed to germs.
Women and children are not spared from the wrath of Mother Nature. All in the path of the tsunami is engulfed and swallowed whole. For the unfortunate, they are thrust into anything that stands in the way of the killer waves. It may it be a concrete wall or it may have been a tree that once stood tall, it doesn’t really matter. The graphics are not to scare you but instead to paint a visual image of how catastrophic the situation was. Merely reading the articles alone may evoke sympathy but visualising it would evoke empathy.
Natural disasters can be especially traumatic for children and the youth as the magnitude of the devastation may be too much them to comprehend. Within minutes their lives are changed for the worst. Houses, streets and all that once stood upon their village have been brought to chaos in an instant. Their sense of security is snatched away from them in an instant, leaving them in a world of turmoil and sadness in seconds. The chaos to their once familiar environment such as their homes and playgrounds can be a long lasting and distressing experience. Unlike the village that can be restored to how it used to be with time, memories cannot be erased.
Health ministry officials said 113 bodies had been recovered in the area so far reported the Associated Press news agency. In addition, 200 body bags were being sent to the region in case they were needed. Many would have to battle with uncertainty and in a time like this the feeling is personified and it is like a dagger pierced through the heart with every day that passes by and no news of their loved ones survival reported. Closure to me is very important. I would rather know that my loved one has passed on then to hold on to hope unsure if it is worth the effort or not. Uncertainty and worry makes it hard to sleep through the night but I would rather live each day with a fact then stay awake with hope. That may sound like someone who has no feelings or could care less but like I said, closure for me is very important. Survivors can be involved with the disaster aftermath for months or even years, especially if they continue to live in the same village. Surviving a disaster of such devastation also means living with painful memories. Hence, survivors who have trouble coping with the reminders of the destruction choose to desolate themselves from the landscape.
These are raw hard facts weather at the end of the day we choose to accept it or not it does not change the immensity of the situation. My heart goes out to the people not so much for the dead but instead for the living, that have to go through each day with the memory deeply engraved in their hearts, images in their minds and scars on their weakened body. We will never truly understand why these horrible things happen to innocent people. Trying to find the answers is going to be a never ending search and even if answers are found it can never truly satisfy our curiosity. We must learn from the past to prepare ourselves, embrace the present as it’s an opportunity to transform a frightening event into a learning experience and brace ourselves for the future, because it remains uncertain.

Effects of pop music on Teenagers


The effects of pop music do not restrict itself solely to the young. Adults who listen to music can get influenced. Why then emphasis on teenagers? This is because they are the most influential age group that can easily be swayed. It is at this age where we are still discovering ourselves as we search for our true identity.
The lyrics to a song are written by real people who are inspired to write based on their life’s journey. As the world gets more complicated for teenagers they begin to feel entrapped in its perplexity. Relating to the lyrics of the music helps teens feel understood and accepted. The lyrics help tap into their emotions which may be reality or just an illusion. Some song, hits the nail on what we are feeling while others gives us the false pretence on our feelings towards the situation which may be detrimental. Instead of identifying the individual’s emotions they may steer a whole new set of emotions which may further complicate the situations. Adults in general are able to decipher between entertainment and cold hard facts.
If we carefully analyse the lyrics that many of the young are exposed to, some even demean the value of women. For instance, the popular pop song Like a G6 contains lyrics like, “When sober girls around me, they be actin like they drunk”. In fact, the music the teenagers listen to is often totally without quality and leads many of them into "robotism", apathy, violence and drugs.
I have briefly delineated the negativity that pop music has had on teens. Now, I would be elaborating on the positive side pop music has had to the young and to me personally.Pop music speaks to people in ways we cannot express. Stevie Wonder sang, "Music is a world within itself, with a language we all understand...." Music is like a language, on its own.

The rhythm, beat, tune and lyrics entwined together provide speaks to us deep within our souls. The effect music has on teenagers is intangible but extraordinary. Its capabilities can only be managed through proper management of emotions. Music springs from the deepest emotions within the soul, and with or without lyrics; music conveys a message, deepest feelings and emotions. It is a world beyond our world. It is a reality, at the same time, a fantasy.

When I am angry I used to listen to heavy metal, when I am sad I would listen to slow jazz, and happy hip hop. After realising how music has an effect to my emotions, instead of allowing the music to heighten unnecessary emotions, I take control of them. Now when I am frustrated I listen to slow music to calm my nerves thus allowing me to compose myself.
In conclusion, Music can affect a teenager either ways adversely or for the better. However I have deduced that teenagers need to be taught the effects of music on teenagers and the appropriate way to deal with it through music. This does not mean that heavy metal and other fast paced music should be avoided but once the technique of effectively controlling our emotions are mastered then these music would not pose any harm.

Singapore’s Educational System

 Education involves the inculcation of knowledge, as well as the social reproduction of personalities and culture. In other words Education not only enlightens the individual’s intellect but shaping the individual as a whole. Singapore has a literacy rate of 94.4% well this fact may be a shock to you judging from the emphasis of paper qualifications for most job requirements in Singapore. A 100% literacy rate would make more sense.  Well the other 5.6% consists of the older generation who were not as privileged as we are now. Delineating how far Singapore’s education has improved. Below states Singapore’s ranking for literacy rate in the world.

The Singapore government's education policy, seeks to provide every child with a well balanced and well-rounded education thus allowing them to maximise their potential. Lessons such as moral education help to nurture them into good citizens who are responsible to the family, society and environment. Physical Education on the other hand helps the child to kick start a healthy active lifestyle at a young vital age. In addition, no child is deprived from an education due to their income, cultural, religion or racial background. I would briefly like to express my views on the concern on the pressure that all this might impose to the young.
Children are sent for tuition at a younger age now than they were before.  I understand that at the younger the child is the more absorbent of the information they are but this is ridiculous grasping the world around us is enough to fill our heads at that age. Parents mean no harm as the emphasis on higher qualifications grow, anxieties within the parents grow as well. Thus, resulting in the Singaporean trait of being ‘kiasu’ I feel that the pace of globalization and increased competition in the corporate world has a chain effect on the educational system. Its effect travels right down to the child’s first day in an educational institution. Do we then still blame it on the education system in Singapore?
Well, that would be unfair right? The root idea of an educational system is to help equip the students with the knowledge to face the corporate world. So can you blame the educational system or the globalizing world for its’ hast pace? It is our jobs to seize the opportunities not wait for opportunities to come knocking at our door. Singapore has kept their eyes wide open for opportunities. Generations are going to come and go but not opportunities we need to prepare the younger generation for the future. From the looks of the world, the complexities of the problems are not going to be any easier, though technology may advance. We need to nurture ones intelligence before their maximum potential can be unleashed.  “Genius without education is like silver in the mine” expressed Benjamin Franklin.
We need to bear in mind that though change is inevitable and slowing down the pace of globalisation is almost impossible, there is always a time for everything. Cramping our heads with all that is in the textbook is not going to do any help releasing endorphin occasionally through exercise is the key to clarity I would say. Going through the educational system in Singapore becomes a little less of a pain.

Changing phase of Singapore’s Society



Singapore has metamorphosized from a curly caterpillar to a beautiful butterfly. Singapore started off as a tiny fishing village and has revolutionised into a full fledged urbanized city. Just like a butterfly struggles to break through the cocoon Singapore has had its fair share of hurdles to overcome, before achieving what they have today.
One of the problems Singapore had to overcome was their shortage of manpower. Throughout the years Singapore has altered their immigration policy to help resolve this problem.
In the early 1900s, there was little or no immigration control what so ever. Out of 3 million people 10% were migrant workers from across the border.
In 2000 out of 4 million people 18% were migrant workers.
Currently in 2010 with the implementation of the Liberal Immigration Policy, Sinapore has seen an increase of foreign workers by 36%
Foreigners and permanent residents take up the jobs that many of the locals shun away. They also complete in the better paying job market such as the Welfare and Finance sector. In doing so they are hopefully lured to anchor themselves in Singapore thus improving our skilled labour force.  
Under the Singapore Employment Act, a foreigner must have a valid work visa to be able to work in Singapore. Today, foreign work force in Singapore is categorized into two broad groups, foreign talent and foreign workers. Foreign talent is skilled employees that have professional business or educational background, whereas foreign workers are the unskilled labour force. 
With an increased number of foreigners, the worry within Singaporeans intensifies as job vacancies, spots in educational institute’s gets more competitive. However the issue has been addressed by the Singaporean government as they have allocated a fixed number of seats for international students.
Frustration boils as many service staff is now rendered by foreign workers who either speak only in their own dialect, or in English but due to their very strong heritage deciphering the words is another battle one has to overcome and finally there is the group which have assimilated well into the society.
Employees find that foreign workers are willing to work longer hours plus they save cost as many do not as high a qualification as the. It think by forcing a minimum wage it would ensures that the labour force is utilised more efficiently as it would want to use their full moneys’ worth.  
Niche areas where they our heartland dwellers could proudly call home are now being invaded by foreigners. Our forefathers were immigrants yet they were able to fit in but why an issue of the immigrants now. Well, in my opinion what makes the difference is that Singapore wants to compete in the global arena and the increased competition contributed by the migrants are not doing any one a favour as stress levels begin to rise at an unhealthy pace. Without proper assimilation into the society everything will fall apart as competition in the global arena intensifies, cultures may clash. The government needs to foster not just tolerance but genuine integration between the locals and foreigners.
Singapore cannot stop the influx of migrants but maybe slow down the inflow. Singapore as it is has space constrain yes, reclamation of land and upward and downward extensions are viable but only to a certain extent. Recruiting the migrants at such a quick pace can be detrimental if there is not enough support services and accommodation to cater to the influx. We need to consider the ramifications before we had fully absorbed into the hype.
Lastly, though the need for migrant workers is evident especially since Singaporeans are not keen to have more children due to the high standards of living. In the process of extending our hospitality towards the foreigners we must not do it in the expense of the locals.